Date Everything: Ben-Hwa Romance Guide

Date Everything is a dating sim like no other—quirky, bold, and packed with a cast of over 100 “Dateables” based on everyday objects. Yes, that’s right. You’ll be flirting with toasters, beds, and more, all voiced by comedians and voice actors who totally lean into the chaos.

The game mixes serious themes with cheeky jokes and playful innuendos. And among all the unforgettable characters, Ben-Hwa definitely knows how to leave an impression. If you're wondering where to find them and how to woo them, you’ve come to the right place. Here's how to romance Ben-Hwa in Date Everything.

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Where to Find Ben-Hwa

Ben-Hwa is Dateable #69 (Yes, seriously.)

If you’ve already romanced Betty the Bed, chances are you’ve run into Ben-Hwa along the way. They’re tucked away inside the bedside table drawer. But here’s the trick—you’ve got to open it without wearing the Dateviators. Sneaky, right?

Once it’s open, scan the little bag inside, and voilà—Ben-Hwa appears. From the get-go, they’re not shy. When Ben-Hwa asks if you remember how you met, the right answer is: “You were a gag gift.” From there, lean into the flirting. Be bold. Be fun. Don’t hold back—Ben-Hwa certainly won’t.

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How to Date Ben-Hwa

Ben-Hwa’s style? Straight to the point. Deep emotional chats? Not their thing. They’ll often ask if you can just skip to the fun stuff. But here’s the kicker: while they’re flirty and playful, they still want to be treated with respect. No teasing that crosses the line, okay?

Next time you visit, they’ll challenge you to a card game. Say yes, and play it cool. Your best bet? Pick answers that are upbeat, curious, and non-judgy. When date night comes up, go with something inclusive—“Anything, as long as it’s with you” is a great vibe. And if things turn...physical? Just go with it. The third encounter follows a similar rhythm, only this time there's food. Stay open-minded and supportive, and you’ll stay in their good graces.

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Endings: Love, Friends, or... Hate

So, how do you land Ben-Hwa’s Love ending? Well, don’t be a jerk—seriously. One bad conversation can push you into the Hate zone. But don’t panic: even if things go south, you can use Candy to patch things up.

When that tense chat rolls around, here’s what to say:

• “Did I miss an anniversary?”
• “Sorry, Ben-hwa.”
• “Hey, that’s not fair.”
• “You're not a joke to me, Ben-hwa.”

After that, if you're still in the game romantically, go for these lines to seal the Love ending:

• “Of course I want to see you again.”
• “I've never seen you as anything but that.”
• “I never want this to stop.”

Be too cold or dismissive, and you’ll land the Hate ending. Play it safe and kind, and you might just end up as friends instead.

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Realizing Ben-Hwa

Once you've reached an ending—whether it's Love, Friendship, or Hate—you’ll earn Sass SPECS points. And if you're looking to Realize Ben-Hwa (aka turn them human), you’ll need their specific recipe:

Dateable	Smarts	Poise	Empathy	Charm	Sass
Ben-Hwa		100		50	100

Here’s the thing: Realizing a Dateable gives you their true ending—but they’ll also leave your house. So don’t Realize them unless you’re ready to say goodbye.

Heads up: Realizing Skylar ends the whole game. So... maybe save her for last?

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